When I tried it my character just lost his head, but I've heavily modded the game so think its got compatibility issues with something else, might work better for you. One of the many settings it has is to swap the male character with a female one, it's done during the game when you can select which sex actions you want, 's' to enable the shortcuts, then press 'n' to bring up a list of options. There's an illusionsoft discord (with mods channel) you might have luck asking on
I used to have both, but I can't find them to upload them for you, so I must have deleted them at some point. My Honey Select Characters, added, I'm assuming he means in the actual, I can't seem to find the link for it, but there is a futa mod that lets you use female cards as the male, and there's a mod who has a dick as one of the accessories for women (might be drfeelgood's?). See below for download and installation instructions. Thanks to the huge library of mods, this VR hentai game has a virtually endless amount of NSFW content to explore. There are newer versions of this gallery available: My Honey Select Characters, added 13:53 Honey Select is an advanced character creator with VR support.